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Wednesday, September 28, 2011
KIFFMCSC-Knight of the Inferno Motorcycle Club of South Carolina
I just posted a picture of me wearing my Knights of the Inferno M/C vest. This means I am officially a club member. The club is for any Fire, EMS, military personnel. It is also open to certain individuals that are upstanding individuals. My husband joined the club a year ago after meeting a friend he was going to school with. I joined the club after obtaining my MC license this past spring. Now I get to belong as social member and look forward to being full member someday in the future. All I need now is the bike! I also am the club treasurer which means I have to answer for any money added or subtracted to account.
The last meeting I went to was a mixture of fun and horror. It was held at a local restaurant and it took over an hour for the waitress to serve us. The fun is how much these guys make me laugh, especially the club president, Joe. He has this “Joe-ism’s” as I like to call them that come out of his mouth and are hilarious. I guess working for years in EMS, police and being in the military you pick up this one liners.
We are looking for new members. We want more participation when we do have team events. Hopefully word will get out and our membership will begin to grow.
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
so close!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am closer to "One-derland" than I have ever been. I haven't been this size in over 25 years. How I have missed it! I sat here tonight watching Biggest Loser and weird feelings came over me. I use to sit here and watch it wishing it was me losing the weight and participating in the challenges. I know I would make an excellent team player. But I was also hearing the weight these girls are and saying to myself...that was me!! She is what I use to look like? How come I couldn't see it as clear as I do now? How come looking in the mirror all I saw was the same person I always was. I never saw the fat but yet I saw the fat. It use to get in my way for a lot of things. Some of the things I was very aware of, but others it was more subtle. I know restaurant booths were an issue. The hostess would look at me (us) and see oversize people so would want to seat us at a table. After trying to squeeze into a booth more times than I care to imagine, I came to the conclusion that tables were better. I like being able to sit in booths again. I could tell on JetBlue when I went home this summer. I had so much more seat belt left to tighten up and I wasn't worried if I was crushing a skinny person next to me. Matter of fact, on the flight home I sat near a heavy set man. I said to him, "It's ok if you touch me". He laughed and said, "that is a first!" I realized how it sounded and turned red while trying to explain I wasn't coming on to him. He understood and then showed me his wedding ring and said it didn't matter anyway...he was married. LOL!!! I also went on a walk for Obesity last Saturday morning. It was the morning of the Susan G. Komen Mountains to Midlands. I missed it last year but my Mom was much more important than the walk. This year I didn't sign up for a team but was going to go and support my co-workers. I woke up too late and decided to go help to the Obesity walk in Spartanburg. I wanted to show my support for this very worthy cause, close to my heart- literally. Plus I had just seen Dr. Ross last Wednesday and after telling him I would be more than happy to speak in front of potential patients about my journey, I wanted to show I was genuine with my offer. Dr. Ross also called me Doty. I laughed and he explained that all the other adidas patients he has calls me Doty. I told him that is okay with me. I think two more ladies from work are going to have the surgery. That will make 9 of us. Our own little support group!
I still sleep with my sleep apnea machine. I think it is addictive because the sound and cool air puts me to sleep. I will going without it on the weekend. Maybe I will feel better when I wake up.
Things are going great. I have so much energy and renewed spirit that I feel like I am bursting at the seams all the time. I love life again and hope I show everyone I care about just how much they mean to me. Y'all know who you are! Some of you even read this blog!
I still sleep with my sleep apnea machine. I think it is addictive because the sound and cool air puts me to sleep. I will going without it on the weekend. Maybe I will feel better when I wake up.
Things are going great. I have so much energy and renewed spirit that I feel like I am bursting at the seams all the time. I love life again and hope I show everyone I care about just how much they mean to me. Y'all know who you are! Some of you even read this blog!
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Update
I am off to see an eye plastic surgeon today for my chalizion. It is a small cyst that is on my left upper eye lid. I went to the eye doctor yesterday for an eye exam and found out that I have 20/50 vision and need glasses for things close up. I can’t read a medicine bottle to save my life. Now with glasses I can but that means it is another sign I am getting old. He saw my eye lid and suggested I have it removed for cosmetic reasons. As soon as he said the word “cosmetic”, I began thinking of mascara, eye liner, and eye makeup that looks funny due to the lid on that eye. Plus it is full of puss so that can’t be good after all these years.
My weight is still going down and that is a good thing. I currently weighed in this morning at 216 which is 74lbs from the beginning of my weight loss surgery. My body has a way of keeping the weight for a few weeks, get my period, and then I start seeing the scale go down. I still am losing my hair and instead of a thick bun when I pull my hair back, I can tell it is much thinner. Rick pulled a huge “rat” of hair out of the tub. It was disgusting how much hair was causing the water to drain slower. I hope it comes back soon.
I look at a number on the scale and try to think back to the last time I remember seeing that number and it has been over 20 years ago. Then it takes me to place where I was 20 years ago and because I was younger and thinner, it should make me happy to reflect back. But it doesn’t. It makes me mad to think how naïve I was to think that a man could make me feel good or bad. I didn’t know myself or how to be me. It was all in the way he treated me whether or not I felt good enough. Now this man was my first husband and as much as I thought I loved him, I know deep down I shouldn’t have married him. My self-esteem was shot long before meeting him. If you meet me, you think I am a happy-go-lucky girl but deep down I have emotional scars that still tear at my heart. They will always be there and some days, the scars cause me pain, but I have learned how to suppress those feelings. I would rather be known more happy-go-lucky than a mean cold bitch.
After my divorce, it took some time, but I learned to love myself again. I also learned that men are dogs. They really are! They either are hungry or horny so give them a sandwich!! (LOL) But after being with a bad boyfriend, and praying to God to find someone that could love me as much as I love them, I met Rick.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
getting use to new body
There are certain things that fat girls can't do, or can't do gracefully. One of them is cross your legs like Mary Hart does. I think the last time I tried to cross my legs lady-like, I might of been posing for a school picture in fourth grade.
I just caught myself sitting at my desk with my legs spread wide open for comfort and my old fat girl position. Then I realized that I don't need to sit like that anymore and tried to cross my legs. It worked. It feels awkward but I can actually get one leg up and over the other one! It may not be Mary Hart but they are crossed!
**side note that although I haven't lost any more weight recently, I feel great and have been walking the treadmill during lunch everyday. As long as I keep myself healthy, I really don't care what the scale says.
I just caught myself sitting at my desk with my legs spread wide open for comfort and my old fat girl position. Then I realized that I don't need to sit like that anymore and tried to cross my legs. It worked. It feels awkward but I can actually get one leg up and over the other one! It may not be Mary Hart but they are crossed!
**side note that although I haven't lost any more weight recently, I feel great and have been walking the treadmill during lunch everyday. As long as I keep myself healthy, I really don't care what the scale says.
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Three things you need in a relationship
Here is my take on the three things you need in a relationship. The first one is trust. You have to have total trust in the person who has your heart. That means not just trust that the relationship is strong and can withstand pressure from outside influences, but trust that my heart is totally in love with the person and nothing will break that bond. Trust also that when things are bad and it seems like there is no way out, that they are the strong one and have your back. Trust that whatever is shared between the two of you, it is only for you to know so the intimacy is strong.
The second key component in my eyes is communication. Communication is both listening and talking. You should want to share your thoughts and feeling with each other. You should be able to tell the person you love what you need and when you need it and how you need it so they can fulfill those needs. I am someone who flees during confrontation so the communication to me has to be put in a delicate way so I don't run and hide. I also love the non-communication that is shared. A simple touch on the knee when driving down the road. A hand over mine to say he cares too. Those are the little things that I love to share.
The last is RESPECT and I bolded that one for a reason. You have to give respect to get respect. A relationship is doomed without respect. It ties into the other two things to make a relationship work. He has to know that I have flaws and I am not perfect but he respects me. He has to also respect me as a person who has values and morals and does not judge me. I need someone to respect me as a woman and not treat me like a doormat. I will treat my man like a king as long as he knows when he dies...the kingdom is all mine!
Oh an I just needed to add this one too....Laughter and smiles. Every relationship needs laughter & smiles. I would not be able to have a relationship if he didn't make me laugh and smile. That is what gets me through my days. I love it when he smiles and laughs because then I smile & laugh right back.
They are pretty much all equal in value but those are the things I think make a relationship work. Money is not important and putting the toilet seat down is meaningless. Don't sweat the small stuff. On the other hand if he is very romantic and mushy when you are dating...don't expect it to continue when you are married! I'm just sayin'
The second key component in my eyes is communication. Communication is both listening and talking. You should want to share your thoughts and feeling with each other. You should be able to tell the person you love what you need and when you need it and how you need it so they can fulfill those needs. I am someone who flees during confrontation so the communication to me has to be put in a delicate way so I don't run and hide. I also love the non-communication that is shared. A simple touch on the knee when driving down the road. A hand over mine to say he cares too. Those are the little things that I love to share.
The last is RESPECT and I bolded that one for a reason. You have to give respect to get respect. A relationship is doomed without respect. It ties into the other two things to make a relationship work. He has to know that I have flaws and I am not perfect but he respects me. He has to also respect me as a person who has values and morals and does not judge me. I need someone to respect me as a woman and not treat me like a doormat. I will treat my man like a king as long as he knows when he dies...the kingdom is all mine!
Oh an I just needed to add this one too....Laughter and smiles. Every relationship needs laughter & smiles. I would not be able to have a relationship if he didn't make me laugh and smile. That is what gets me through my days. I love it when he smiles and laughs because then I smile & laugh right back.
They are pretty much all equal in value but those are the things I think make a relationship work. Money is not important and putting the toilet seat down is meaningless. Don't sweat the small stuff. On the other hand if he is very romantic and mushy when you are dating...don't expect it to continue when you are married! I'm just sayin'
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Babies
I would love to have a baby, but it just wasn’t in God’s plan. No doubt we have tried and we just might get pregnant now that I have this weight loss. My fear is being an old lady and getting pregnant. I want to be healthy and strong enough to raise a baby, toddler, pre-teen. There is nothing more in this world that I would want than to hold a baby in my arms and have that unconditional love for them. I know I would be able to love adopted children or babies from an egg donor even without coming from my body. It is all a matter of motherhood. I remember Nancy Griffin got me a little Donald Duck beanie hat when I was pregnant in 1997. Someone else got me a book about what to expect when expecting. I was so happy to have finally gotten pregnant that I told everyone and was so excited. I guess I jumped the gun because I loss the baby 8 weeks later. It was not meant to be and that was a good thing. My boyfriend at the time, was cheating on me and I guess the stress took its toll on my body/baby.
There are several girls here at work that are pregnant or just had a baby. I am very envious of them but am so happy for them too. There are other woman like me, sitting here wondering why them and not me? I guess every month I am reminded that I am not supposed to have children. It hurts.
There are several girls here at work that are pregnant or just had a baby. I am very envious of them but am so happy for them too. There are other woman like me, sitting here wondering why them and not me? I guess every month I am reminded that I am not supposed to have children. It hurts.
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Poker
I kind of wish I knew how to play poker. Not for the gambling part of it but just to learn it. The 3rd Annual Tyler J. Trahan Poker Tournament is in a few weeks. It is always on tv and I try to follow along but it seems like there is math involved and I hate math.
Friday, July 8, 2011
New haircut
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After I went and gone done did my hair. (southern speak) I have not cut my hair in a certain style since 2008. I wanted to cut it since I am going back to Massachusetts for a visit and a wedding. Plus I have lost a total of 60 lbs and feel like a new me. I like to think I have been “sexy-fied”
I love hearing the compliments which boost my self-confidence. Rick loves my haircut because I didn’t trim too much off the length. I know I look good because I fit into a size 18- 20, which I haven’t done since my first wedding gown.
I also started a medically supervised gym program through the local hospital. I was the youngest one in the gym the other day. A cute little old man on the machine next to me introduced himself and was being nosey about why I was there. I love old people.
I am on my way to new healthy me.
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Dazed and Confused
It seems like the older I get, the worst my memory is getting. I know I should have more vivid memories of things that happened in the past but for the life of me, I am forgetting quite a bit. "I don't know Jack" and yes I did lose playing this game a few weeks ago. It ranges from remembering tv shows, movies, books, character or actor names to songs and historical moments. I know I should remember when the Berlin Wall fell in the 80's, but I don't remember. I do remember Ronald Reagan and John Lennon getting shot. I remember Madonna singing "Lucky Star" and the opening pep squad routing Judy did for spirit week that year. I can't remember people I went to high school with that are friends on Facebook.
Why can't I remember other things? It gets so bad sometimes I can't even think of the right words. The word is not in my mind and I have to pause a moment to come up with the right word or an alternate. People around me must think I am dazed and confused because I know I get this look on my face. It is frustrating and at the same time scary. I am taking vitamins and wonder if ginko bilova would help.
My friend Jim was telling me his vivid memory of the last time he saw me. I have no memory of it and question myself if I was really there. Rick can spew out lines of movies from the 80's when I have a hard time remembering just the movie, never mind lines said in it. JOMIII was always good helping my Mom remember character or actors who played in certain shows. She would call him up (he lived upstairs) and she would call his number to ask him. I know I am still young at 45 years old, but losing my memory is making me feel old.
Why can't I remember other things? It gets so bad sometimes I can't even think of the right words. The word is not in my mind and I have to pause a moment to come up with the right word or an alternate. People around me must think I am dazed and confused because I know I get this look on my face. It is frustrating and at the same time scary. I am taking vitamins and wonder if ginko bilova would help.
My friend Jim was telling me his vivid memory of the last time he saw me. I have no memory of it and question myself if I was really there. Rick can spew out lines of movies from the 80's when I have a hard time remembering just the movie, never mind lines said in it. JOMIII was always good helping my Mom remember character or actors who played in certain shows. She would call him up (he lived upstairs) and she would call his number to ask him. I know I am still young at 45 years old, but losing my memory is making me feel old.
Monday, June 20, 2011
I feel spoiled sometimes
I have a good life. All in all I feel blessed in my life. I hear stories from friends about the crazy life or hell they are going through and I have to stop and thank God it is not me. I know He gives us trials and tribulations to get through only to make us stronger. I guess He knows that I probably wouldn't be able to handle a serious crisis or problem. My instinct is always to flee from conflict or crisis. I don't have the strength to stand up and fight. I am sure if my back was pushed into a wall, I would fight. After typing that sentence the first thought I had was, "what if I am not a big girl anymore..who could physically push me into a wall." THERAPY...I NEED THERAPY!!
I just remember douche-bag boyfriend abuse and how I was so scared of him that I just lay there like a fool. If I could change the past the first thing I would do is kick that bastard in the balls and smack him over the head with a baseball bat. No really!! I know I don't seem to be that agressive but when your mind plays the abuse over and over again...you build up this fantasy evil world of revenge.
I thank him though for putting me here in the future where I belong. A man came along who showed me how it is to love with a whole heart and soul and I married him. If it wasn't for douche-bag, I wouldn't of met Rick.
To all of you going through some difficult times right now, my only advice is that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and although you are in the darkess blackness you have ever been in.....God will show you the light. Just keep looking for it...
I just remember douche-bag boyfriend abuse and how I was so scared of him that I just lay there like a fool. If I could change the past the first thing I would do is kick that bastard in the balls and smack him over the head with a baseball bat. No really!! I know I don't seem to be that agressive but when your mind plays the abuse over and over again...you build up this fantasy evil world of revenge.
I thank him though for putting me here in the future where I belong. A man came along who showed me how it is to love with a whole heart and soul and I married him. If it wasn't for douche-bag, I wouldn't of met Rick.
To all of you going through some difficult times right now, my only advice is that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and although you are in the darkess blackness you have ever been in.....God will show you the light. Just keep looking for it...
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Compliments feel funny
I am still shy when someone pays me attention. I like it...don't get me wrong...but when they compliments start coming, I start turning red and get embarrassed. It is a feeling that I remember as a little redhaired girl and all the old folks would stop and tell me how cute I was. Normally I should feel flattered that I am being noticed, but inside I want to go run and eat a hot fudge sundae to calm me down.
This is not rational....
I am trying to break out of this shell and become more extroverted. Those of you who know me are in shock to learn that I am really an introvert. Once I get to know you, I break out of my shy shell and have fun. I have to know you first. My sister Maureen can talk to anyone, anywhere about anything...and she does. Elevator rides which are normally taboo for talking to one another...she cracks jokes with strangers. I stand in the corner and try not to move.
I will have to learn to be more assertive and polite to accept kind words of compliments. KEEP THEM COMING!!
This is not rational....
I am trying to break out of this shell and become more extroverted. Those of you who know me are in shock to learn that I am really an introvert. Once I get to know you, I break out of my shy shell and have fun. I have to know you first. My sister Maureen can talk to anyone, anywhere about anything...and she does. Elevator rides which are normally taboo for talking to one another...she cracks jokes with strangers. I stand in the corner and try not to move.
I will have to learn to be more assertive and polite to accept kind words of compliments. KEEP THEM COMING!!
Monday, June 6, 2011
A couple bad days
I had a really bad episode yesterday that lasted until today. I woke up and had bad nausea and bad abdominal pain. It felt like a bad gas bubble that was blocking me up. I would have waves of nausea come over me and start to get sick. The thing about gastric bypass is we do not have bile in our stomachs to throw up. Rick was standing near me rubbing my back to help ease my pain. I called the doctor because it seriously felt like something was stuck in my bowels. The doctor answered right away and I gave him my symptoms. He suggested Mylox, Mylanta and a laxative to help ease the pain/nausea. Rick ran to the store to get me some and I was closing my GB handbook when I saw this highlighted. No raw fruits or vegetables until week 12.
Well Saturday night I had eaten taco meat with lettuce and tomato on tortilla wrap. I think the lettuce and tomato was the problem of the gas. I woke up this morning and still had both nausea and gas pain. I did have a normal bladder release and that felt good. I just woke up at 5pm (I was up all night in pain). Now I feel no nausea or gas pain. I ate a grilled cheese tortilla and feel better. Now I have to drink more liquids to prevent dehydration.
I am lucky it has passed.
Well Saturday night I had eaten taco meat with lettuce and tomato on tortilla wrap. I think the lettuce and tomato was the problem of the gas. I woke up this morning and still had both nausea and gas pain. I did have a normal bladder release and that felt good. I just woke up at 5pm (I was up all night in pain). Now I feel no nausea or gas pain. I ate a grilled cheese tortilla and feel better. Now I have to drink more liquids to prevent dehydration.
I am lucky it has passed.
Saturday, June 4, 2011
SKYPE
I was logged into SKYPE and heard it make a signal when my brother Michael came on tonight. We all SKYPED together (Mike, Sandy, Rick and I) and it felt like we were right there in their computer room. I love SKYPE and the way you can not only hear the conversation but see it too.
I found that they now offer group calls, for an extra fee. I can't imagine getting all seven O'Malley's on SKYPE and trying to have a conference SKYPE call. It gets hectic in person trying to outspeak each other. I guess that is why I am the quiet one! LOL That plus being the youngest I guess I was taught to respect my elders (dig dig).
But if anyone wants to know our SKYPE name, HMU (hit me up) and I will let you know it. Feeling more and more technologically improved. Webcam works great on new laptop so I can take it outside and walk around the house.
Love you family!!
I found that they now offer group calls, for an extra fee. I can't imagine getting all seven O'Malley's on SKYPE and trying to have a conference SKYPE call. It gets hectic in person trying to outspeak each other. I guess that is why I am the quiet one! LOL That plus being the youngest I guess I was taught to respect my elders (dig dig).
But if anyone wants to know our SKYPE name, HMU (hit me up) and I will let you know it. Feeling more and more technologically improved. Webcam works great on new laptop so I can take it outside and walk around the house.
Love you family!!
Thursday, June 2, 2011
When the going gets tough....
My car died yesterday. I think it looked like some kind of tire rod sticking out and caused wheel to move into back bumper and dislodge. I called AAA and renewed my membership, because of course my procrastination let it expire. The tow truck came within 25 minutes. It was 99 degrees out on bank sign. I was debating go out in the heat but I got my short term disability check in the mail on Tuesday and wanted to deposit. Luckily I was near gas station to pull in and wait in A/C for tow truck. I would have melted in the heat. I told them I recently had surgery and AAA lady flagged me as high priority. Now I know the trick for future reference.
The tow truck driver from McGraw Wrecker (nice Irish name) was Scott who was from Manchester, NH! Cool!! When you meet a fellow New Englander down here, there is a camaradie between us that only we understand. Rick looked at tire and thinks he maybe able to weld it up. Wait and see.
So the dilema today was waking up and realizing that he left for work already....in his truck. I was suppose to talk to him about taking his motorcycle or dropping him off at Joe McCally's house for a ride. I only have three hours of sleep and am wide awake after hitting up my friends for a ride to doctor's appointment today. I love my friends. They are my second family down here. I would do anything for them, and today they showed they will help me out when I need it.
I even got a FB message from friend who gave me referral for honest used car dealer. How about them apples! Sounds like oxymoron...honest used car salesman?
The tow truck driver from McGraw Wrecker (nice Irish name) was Scott who was from Manchester, NH! Cool!! When you meet a fellow New Englander down here, there is a camaradie between us that only we understand. Rick looked at tire and thinks he maybe able to weld it up. Wait and see.
So the dilema today was waking up and realizing that he left for work already....in his truck. I was suppose to talk to him about taking his motorcycle or dropping him off at Joe McCally's house for a ride. I only have three hours of sleep and am wide awake after hitting up my friends for a ride to doctor's appointment today. I love my friends. They are my second family down here. I would do anything for them, and today they showed they will help me out when I need it.
I even got a FB message from friend who gave me referral for honest used car dealer. How about them apples! Sounds like oxymoron...honest used car salesman?
Friday, May 27, 2011
All the other days
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
beautiful eyes, nice smile, bear hugs, intelligent but has street smarts too, great sense of humor, sarcastic, philisophical, has to have chest hair, long wet kisses.
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
How to lose weight has always been a problem for me but not for long. I am on my way to using gastric bypass to get healthy and lose the weight that has been a burden to my body for all my life.
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Ipswich Fried Clams. I know there is a place in Greenville that I can get them but not sure if they will agree with my new pouch.
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Get healthy by going to Zumba more and exercising regularly.
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
HIGH= my gastric bypass surgery on May 10th but this was also a low for me since I miss my Mom and family and wish they were here to support me.
beautiful eyes, nice smile, bear hugs, intelligent but has street smarts too, great sense of humor, sarcastic, philisophical, has to have chest hair, long wet kisses.
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
How to lose weight has always been a problem for me but not for long. I am on my way to using gastric bypass to get healthy and lose the weight that has been a burden to my body for all my life.
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Ipswich Fried Clams. I know there is a place in Greenville that I can get them but not sure if they will agree with my new pouch.
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Get healthy by going to Zumba more and exercising regularly.
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
HIGH= my gastric bypass surgery on May 10th but this was also a low for me since I miss my Mom and family and wish they were here to support me.
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Catch Up on my days
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Right now it is GLee but Nikita runs a close second
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
I am more confident and financially secure than I have ever been.
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Easier to just list them: Gerard Butler, David Boreanz, Matthew Broderick -my 80's crush but he still has this cuteness about him.
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
On Golden Pond, because it stars real like father/daughter Jane Fonda and Henry Fonda and it is located in New Hampshire. Reminds me of my father.
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
My husband fascinates me with his wisdom and random facts he knows.
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Right now it is GLee but Nikita runs a close second
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
I am more confident and financially secure than I have ever been.
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Easier to just list them: Gerard Butler, David Boreanz, Matthew Broderick -my 80's crush but he still has this cuteness about him.
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
On Golden Pond, because it stars real like father/daughter Jane Fonda and Henry Fonda and it is located in New Hampshire. Reminds me of my father.
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
My husband fascinates me with his wisdom and random facts he knows.
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
It might be more like day 46 but I am at least going in order!
This is day 20 which asks how important I think education is. First of all I think education should not be forced upon anyone. My dad went up to 9th grade education and he was a very smart man. He had to go work to support the family, being the oldest child. My mother on the other hand had private education taught by nuns and then went on to nursing school. Both of my parents provided for their family regardless of their education level. I think if you can get a job today, with or without a diploma...you are in good shape. Granted sometimes a degree from college may make you the more suitable candidate for the job, but ultimately education should be up to you. I think every freshmen in college should be paying their own way, so if they want to take the party route and blow all their classes, then it is their own money blown and not their parents. They need to take ownership of the bill. On the other hand I think poor, low-income bright and intelligent students who just don't have the means to afford the education, should be allowed a lot more scholarships and cheaper tuition.
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
This is day 20 which asks how important I think education is. First of all I think education should not be forced upon anyone. My dad went up to 9th grade education and he was a very smart man. He had to go work to support the family, being the oldest child. My mother on the other hand had private education taught by nuns and then went on to nursing school. Both of my parents provided for their family regardless of their education level. I think if you can get a job today, with or without a diploma...you are in good shape. Granted sometimes a degree from college may make you the more suitable candidate for the job, but ultimately education should be up to you. I think every freshmen in college should be paying their own way, so if they want to take the party route and blow all their classes, then it is their own money blown and not their parents. They need to take ownership of the bill. On the other hand I think poor, low-income bright and intelligent students who just don't have the means to afford the education, should be allowed a lot more scholarships and cheaper tuition.
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
I really am not sure if this is day 19 or not but since I am sitting (comfortably) at computer, I thought I would post new Day 19 Challenge.
Disrespecting Parents- I think kids today have no idea what the word respect is about. Yes I did dis-obey my parents, but I never tried to disrespect them. If we were to say half the things kids say to their parents today, we would have a back hand somewhere on our bodies to remind us that is not respectful. I know my Dad never would let us say one bad thing about Mom because that was disrespectful of her. She ruled the roost and deserved all the respect we could give her. I know in the film "Christmas Story" when Ralphie has to wash his mouth out with soap, this punishment was actually used in the O'Malley household. I don't remember what kind of soap it was...but one of my older siblings had to bite down on Ivory.
There are two things that you should always give your parents...love & respect.
Disrespecting Parents- I think kids today have no idea what the word respect is about. Yes I did dis-obey my parents, but I never tried to disrespect them. If we were to say half the things kids say to their parents today, we would have a back hand somewhere on our bodies to remind us that is not respectful. I know my Dad never would let us say one bad thing about Mom because that was disrespectful of her. She ruled the roost and deserved all the respect we could give her. I know in the film "Christmas Story" when Ralphie has to wash his mouth out with soap, this punishment was actually used in the O'Malley household. I don't remember what kind of soap it was...but one of my older siblings had to bite down on Ivory.
There are two things that you should always give your parents...love & respect.
Saturday, May 7, 2011
saved the next few days
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Don’t have one
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day- skipped this
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Ireland
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
I remember Mrs. Aliscio’s kindergarten class and holding the big metal door open
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
I just had to google what Tumblrs were so I guess I don’t have any favorites
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Love all kinds of music so my views are that as long as I can understand the words and sing along… I might like the song.
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Mom passing away was a low and getting my M/C license was high
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
I believe in God the almighty…Creator of heaven and earth (Apostle’s Creed)
I believe that He is a loving God and that being a good person will get you to eternal salvation in heaven. I strongly believe in angels and spirits that guide me through this life. I believe that karma does exist and will come back ten fold if you do harm/ill-will to someone. I believe in the Golden Rule…”treat others as you wish to be treated”. I believe that the more we love, the more we live.
I believe that Redheads Rule!
Don’t have one
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day- skipped this
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Ireland
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
I remember Mrs. Aliscio’s kindergarten class and holding the big metal door open
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
I just had to google what Tumblrs were so I guess I don’t have any favorites
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Love all kinds of music so my views are that as long as I can understand the words and sing along… I might like the song.
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Mom passing away was a low and getting my M/C license was high
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
I believe in God the almighty…Creator of heaven and earth (Apostle’s Creed)
I believe that He is a loving God and that being a good person will get you to eternal salvation in heaven. I strongly believe in angels and spirits that guide me through this life. I believe that karma does exist and will come back ten fold if you do harm/ill-will to someone. I believe in the Golden Rule…”treat others as you wish to be treated”. I believe that the more we love, the more we live.
I believe that Redheads Rule!
Friday, May 6, 2011
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Oh man this might take me a while....
First kiss was my Dad! or maybe Mom since Dads were out in the maternity ward waiting room back in the old days.
My first french kiss with when I was 13 years old and I was at the YMCA pool. Peter Cabral took me in the equipment closet and I bite his tongue. I guess it was a form of initiation but I am glad I got to learn what french kissing was.
My first love...was my first husband Todd. He was my everything to me and I fell head over heals in love with him. Of course, you should never marry your first love. Big mistake!!!
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
First kiss was my Dad! or maybe Mom since Dads were out in the maternity ward waiting room back in the old days.
My first french kiss with when I was 13 years old and I was at the YMCA pool. Peter Cabral took me in the equipment closet and I bite his tongue. I guess it was a form of initiation but I am glad I got to learn what french kissing was.
My first love...was my first husband Todd. He was my everything to me and I fell head over heals in love with him. Of course, you should never marry your first love. Big mistake!!!
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Day 8 & 9
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life It would have to be this past weekend. I just finished taking a Beginner Motorcycle Course and I passed. I did not know if I would be able to learn how to ride. I once got on my brother David's "Wombat" when I was about 13 yrs old and when I pushed the trottle, I drove into a parked car on Glover St.
The idea of me on a motorcylce was crazy, but I still wanted to learn how to ride for two reasons. 1.) I didn't want to be a burden to Rick with the extra weight behind him and yet 2.) I wanted to experience the feeling alone and not with him. Sorry honey! I was so satisfied with my life after passing that test and knowing I can do anything I set my mind to.
since I skipped a day I am doing two entries today:
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
I already can visualize my future. I will be "HAPPY, HEALTHY AND STRONG" That is my mantra that I like to repeat to myself. I also hear Tyler in my ear saying, "You can do it Auntie Chris!"
I know my future will be much better than it is now. I will have lost the weight from gastric bypass (next Tuesday), I will be more active and participating in life, I will be happily married to my sweetie and we will be riding down the highway of life side by side on our bikes. (*I have to get one first!!)
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Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
The idea of me on a motorcylce was crazy, but I still wanted to learn how to ride for two reasons. 1.) I didn't want to be a burden to Rick with the extra weight behind him and yet 2.) I wanted to experience the feeling alone and not with him. Sorry honey! I was so satisfied with my life after passing that test and knowing I can do anything I set my mind to.
since I skipped a day I am doing two entries today:
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
I already can visualize my future. I will be "HAPPY, HEALTHY AND STRONG" That is my mantra that I like to repeat to myself. I also hear Tyler in my ear saying, "You can do it Auntie Chris!"
I know my future will be much better than it is now. I will have lost the weight from gastric bypass (next Tuesday), I will be more active and participating in life, I will be happily married to my sweetie and we will be riding down the highway of life side by side on our bikes. (*I have to get one first!!)
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Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Day 7
Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
I was born under the Gemini zodiac sign. I have no idea what those new zodiac signs mean but I am still a Gemini. I have known that Gemini are communicators and I believe that is true of me.
this is from http://www.geminitraits.org/ I have underlined everything that I think relates to me:
The Gemini, or simply “the Twins”, is a sign of the zodiac that rules from May 21 up to June 21. It generally represents an independent and outgoing personality. Most Geminis delight in socializing, and they are almost always the ones who make a particular event a lively occasion. They simply love to entertain that’s why most of them take interest in hosting an event or performing in a crowd. They are magnanimous in offering their friendship to people. They have this gift of the gab, which makes them a good asset in every social circle as well as in work. In other words, they are the life of every occasion.
When it comes to serious matters such as work and love, Geminis are unique in a sense that they are born to become intelligent people. They are witty and sometimes, even cunning. They can also juggle multiple tasks without looking tired afterwards. As for communications, one can never be bored whenever he is around with a Gemini. A person who is born under this sign often makes it a point to carry out the conversation no matter how boring it may seem for him. Perhaps the most interesting quality of the Geminis lies in their being good at persuading people. Using their ability to communicate efficiently, they can easily get what they wanted from a person. Geminis are naturally charismatic, too. This is why most people fall for them even if they do not intend to please everyone.
However, since nobody is born perfect, a Gemini also has some flaws in his personality. The seemingly positive Gemini traits tend to backfire to the person. Being excessively spontaneous, Geminis can be viewed as reckless and flirtatious lot. Although they do not intend to act like that, the people around them tend to think otherwise. Another thing is their being indecisive. No one can exactly tell where their indecisiveness has rooted from, but this is true for most Geminis. Their minds tend to change every 15 minutes, albeit that would be a bit of exaggeration. Even though they are witty, there are also the times when they cannot simply make up their minds; especially if the matter seems to excite them. They love novelty and change, but in areas concerning love and career, this personality may not work for their own good
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Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
I was born under the Gemini zodiac sign. I have no idea what those new zodiac signs mean but I am still a Gemini. I have known that Gemini are communicators and I believe that is true of me.
this is from http://www.geminitraits.org/ I have underlined everything that I think relates to me:
The Gemini, or simply “the Twins”, is a sign of the zodiac that rules from May 21 up to June 21. It generally represents an independent and outgoing personality. Most Geminis delight in socializing, and they are almost always the ones who make a particular event a lively occasion. They simply love to entertain that’s why most of them take interest in hosting an event or performing in a crowd. They are magnanimous in offering their friendship to people. They have this gift of the gab, which makes them a good asset in every social circle as well as in work. In other words, they are the life of every occasion.
When it comes to serious matters such as work and love, Geminis are unique in a sense that they are born to become intelligent people. They are witty and sometimes, even cunning. They can also juggle multiple tasks without looking tired afterwards. As for communications, one can never be bored whenever he is around with a Gemini. A person who is born under this sign often makes it a point to carry out the conversation no matter how boring it may seem for him. Perhaps the most interesting quality of the Geminis lies in their being good at persuading people. Using their ability to communicate efficiently, they can easily get what they wanted from a person. Geminis are naturally charismatic, too. This is why most people fall for them even if they do not intend to please everyone.
However, since nobody is born perfect, a Gemini also has some flaws in his personality. The seemingly positive Gemini traits tend to backfire to the person. Being excessively spontaneous, Geminis can be viewed as reckless and flirtatious lot. Although they do not intend to act like that, the people around them tend to think otherwise. Another thing is their being indecisive. No one can exactly tell where their indecisiveness has rooted from, but this is true for most Geminis. Their minds tend to change every 15 minutes, albeit that would be a bit of exaggeration. Even though they are witty, there are also the times when they cannot simply make up their minds; especially if the matter seems to excite them. They love novelty and change, but in areas concerning love and career, this personality may not work for their own good
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Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Monday, May 2, 2011
Day 6
Day 06 ⇝ Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
Middle name is from my Grandmother
2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED?
Today, anniversary of my nephew killed in Iraq
3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
I have seen better
4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
Pickle and pimento loaf but haven't had it since last year
5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS?
No
6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Yes because I think I am approachable
7. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT?
No but I love sarcastic people - wish I could think that fast
8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS?
Got them out to cure sleep apnea, but then got fat and had sleep apnea again
9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
No but I would skydive
10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL?
Honey Bunches of Oats
11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
No I pop them off from the back
12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG?
No both emotionally and physically I feel weak
13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
Vienna Mocha Chunk from Friendly's Ice Cream
14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?
Eyes. A lot you can tell from someone's eyes
15. RED OR PINK?
Pink, redheads aren't suppose to wear red
16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF?
I am not assertive enough. I need B!)CH lessons!
17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST?
Today...my nephew Tyler
18. WHAT IS THE PAUL MCKENNA TECHNIQUE THAT YOU NEED TO WORK ON THE MOST?
I had to google Paul McKenna to find out my answer = Confidence
19. WHAT COLOR SHOES ARE YOU WEARING?
barefoot (pop shoes off as soon as I come in house)
20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
Easter dinner a week ago (on liquid diet this week)
21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
absolutely nothing
22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE?
Seafoam Green
23. FAVORITE SMELLS?
Ocean (even low tide smells good)
24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?
Best friend Judy
25. MOUNTAIN HIDEAWAY OR BEACH HOUSE?
Beach house (ties in to #23)
26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?
Ice Hockey- Go Bruins!
27. HAIR COLOR?
Red, Auburn, ginger, carrot top
28. EYE COLOR?
Blue
29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS?
Nope
30. FAVORITE FOOD?
Ipswich Fried Clams
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Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
Middle name is from my Grandmother
2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED?
Today, anniversary of my nephew killed in Iraq
3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
I have seen better
4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
Pickle and pimento loaf but haven't had it since last year
5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS?
No
6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Yes because I think I am approachable
7. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT?
No but I love sarcastic people - wish I could think that fast
8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS?
Got them out to cure sleep apnea, but then got fat and had sleep apnea again
9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
No but I would skydive
10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL?
Honey Bunches of Oats
11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
No I pop them off from the back
12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG?
No both emotionally and physically I feel weak
13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
Vienna Mocha Chunk from Friendly's Ice Cream
14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?
Eyes. A lot you can tell from someone's eyes
15. RED OR PINK?
Pink, redheads aren't suppose to wear red
16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF?
I am not assertive enough. I need B!)CH lessons!
17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST?
Today...my nephew Tyler
18. WHAT IS THE PAUL MCKENNA TECHNIQUE THAT YOU NEED TO WORK ON THE MOST?
I had to google Paul McKenna to find out my answer = Confidence
19. WHAT COLOR SHOES ARE YOU WEARING?
barefoot (pop shoes off as soon as I come in house)
20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
Easter dinner a week ago (on liquid diet this week)
21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
absolutely nothing
22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE?
Seafoam Green
23. FAVORITE SMELLS?
Ocean (even low tide smells good)
24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?
Best friend Judy
25. MOUNTAIN HIDEAWAY OR BEACH HOUSE?
Beach house (ties in to #23)
26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?
Ice Hockey- Go Bruins!
27. HAIR COLOR?
Red, Auburn, ginger, carrot top
28. EYE COLOR?
Blue
29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS?
Nope
30. FAVORITE FOOD?
Ipswich Fried Clams
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Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Day 3, 4 & 5 of Challenge
I have missed a few days so thought I would play catch up...
Day 03 ⇝ Your views on drugs and alcohol
I have to admit that I come from a Irish family so alchol is suppose to be in our blood. I remember when my older brother wreck a Ford LTD around a tree because he was drinking. I remember my Dad coming home plastered and wondering why he behaved like a crazy man. I remember how reckless my friends got when they were drinking. I think back to all those memories and it makes me not want to drink. Yes I do drink and I try to keep to a 2 drink minimum, especially if I am driving.
OTC drugs are wonderful. There was a mens vitamin commerical on TV last night and I told Rick he should start taking his vitamins. He joked and said he does, "Ibuprophen". I think marijuana could be made legal, but all others do more harm to not just user, but others.
Day 04 ⇝ Your views on religion
I believe in God, the father the almighty....
I also believe that God is a loving God and that he would not want us to feel he is punishing us. Give your problems to God so he can carry you through whatever troubles you have. I really believe in the power of prayer and have personally had a miracle happen to me. I believe in our angels and saints who look out for us and help guide us through. I believe that no matter what religon you are or even if you are an athiest, that we should love each other as ourselves.
Day 05 ⇝ A time you thought about ending your own life (depressing)
Vivid memory of driving down I-195 in Fairhaven heading towards AT&T and was thinking about Michelle Cote of how she died right before Thanksgiving by hitting a concrete bridge abutment and saying to myself..."all I have to do is speed up and drive right into it". I have been in the darkest of dark places where life did not seem worth it. But thankfully, I have God and the love of Rick and my family to help me through it. There is life after a suck ass job that drains your being out of you. Paxil also helped. I would not wish depression on my enemies...that is how bad it is.
Day 06 ⇝ Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Day 03 ⇝ Your views on drugs and alcohol
I have to admit that I come from a Irish family so alchol is suppose to be in our blood. I remember when my older brother wreck a Ford LTD around a tree because he was drinking. I remember my Dad coming home plastered and wondering why he behaved like a crazy man. I remember how reckless my friends got when they were drinking. I think back to all those memories and it makes me not want to drink. Yes I do drink and I try to keep to a 2 drink minimum, especially if I am driving.
OTC drugs are wonderful. There was a mens vitamin commerical on TV last night and I told Rick he should start taking his vitamins. He joked and said he does, "Ibuprophen". I think marijuana could be made legal, but all others do more harm to not just user, but others.
Day 04 ⇝ Your views on religion
I believe in God, the father the almighty....
I also believe that God is a loving God and that he would not want us to feel he is punishing us. Give your problems to God so he can carry you through whatever troubles you have. I really believe in the power of prayer and have personally had a miracle happen to me. I believe in our angels and saints who look out for us and help guide us through. I believe that no matter what religon you are or even if you are an athiest, that we should love each other as ourselves.
Day 05 ⇝ A time you thought about ending your own life (depressing)
Vivid memory of driving down I-195 in Fairhaven heading towards AT&T and was thinking about Michelle Cote of how she died right before Thanksgiving by hitting a concrete bridge abutment and saying to myself..."all I have to do is speed up and drive right into it". I have been in the darkest of dark places where life did not seem worth it. But thankfully, I have God and the love of Rick and my family to help me through it. There is life after a suck ass job that drains your being out of you. Paxil also helped. I would not wish depression on my enemies...that is how bad it is.
Day 06 ⇝ Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Day 02 ⇝ Where you'd like to be in 10 years
In ten years will be 54 years old. It makes me realize that if I was still with AT&T, I would be retired by 54. I want to be growing old and gray with my hubby and hopefully have saved some money to finally have gone on a cruise or visit Ireland. Maybe I will do that for my 50th birthday?
Day 03 ⇝ Your views on drugs and alcohol
Day 04 ⇝ Your views on religion
Day 05 ⇝ A time you thought about ending your own life (depressing)
Day 06 ⇝ Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
30-day Challenge thing
I was reading another blog in which the blogger did this and it made for interesting reading. My biggest thing is finishing it. I always lose my way when I commit to something....so here goes.
Day 03 ⇝ Your views on drugs and alcohol
Day 04 ⇝ Your views on religion
Day 05 ⇝ A time you thought about ending your own life (depressing)
Day 06 ⇝ Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Day 01 ⇝ Your current relationship
I am happily married to R for the last seven year on 6-26-04. I met him at online and by about 3 weeks later, I knew I was falling in love with him. The only issue right now is that I don't get to see him except for the half hour when he comes home, takes a shower, eats and then goes to bed. He has been working 12 hour days and I miss him.
Day 02 ⇝ Where you'd like to be in 10 years
Day 03 ⇝ Your views on drugs and alcohol
Day 04 ⇝ Your views on religion
Day 05 ⇝ A time you thought about ending your own life (depressing)
Day 06 ⇝ Write 30 interesting facts about yourself
Day 07 ⇝ Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 08 ⇝ A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life
Day 09 ⇝ How you hope your future will be like
Day 10 ⇝ Discuss your first love and first kiss
Day 11 ⇝ Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up
Day 12 ⇝ Bullet your whole day
Day 13 ⇝ Somewhere you'd like to move or visit
Day 14 ⇝ Your earliest memory
Day 15 ⇝ Your favorite Tumblrs
Day 16 ⇝ Your views on mainstream music
Day 17 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this past year
Day 18 ⇝ Your beliefs
Day 19 ⇝ Disrespecting your parents
Day 20 ⇝ How important you think education is
Day 21 ⇝ One of your favorite shows
Day 22 ⇝ How have you changed in the past 2 years
Day 23 ⇝ Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous you find attractive
Day 24 ⇝ Your favorite movie and what it's about
Day 25 ⇝ Someone who fascinates you and why
Day 26 ⇝ What kind of person attracts you
Day 27 ⇝ A problem that you have had
Day 28 ⇝ Something that you miss
Day 29 ⇝ Goals for the next 30 days
Day 30 ⇝ Your highs and lows of this month
Friday, April 1, 2011
Carolina Girl
I have my Carolina Girl Apparel t-shirt on today. I ordered one and they sent a free one. I have a picture on my Facebook page. Ironic how a Massachusetts girl (born & raised) somehow transforms into a Carolina Girl just by wearing a t-shirt!
For those of you who know me, you know that I was country-fied before even heading down here. I listened to CatCountry 98.1 back home faithfully. I wore a cowgirl hat at my wedding and I had my hair in braids. My music was also country during the wedding. I love it down here and to hear that it is snowing back home today (April 1st is no joke) that makes me a Carolina Girl.
For those of you who know me, you know that I was country-fied before even heading down here. I listened to CatCountry 98.1 back home faithfully. I wore a cowgirl hat at my wedding and I had my hair in braids. My music was also country during the wedding. I love it down here and to hear that it is snowing back home today (April 1st is no joke) that makes me a Carolina Girl.
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Happy & Sad
Today is the anniversary of my Dad passing away in 1979. I was 12 years old and although I knew my Dad was sick from open heart surgery, I did not know that I could possibly wake up in the morning to find out he had died. I wish I got to say goodbye....but regrets cannot rule my life. I went to a psychologist (during my divorce) and they said I had to write a letter to say goodbye. I did and it helped bring some closure to the words I never got to say. That is the sad part of March 2nd.
The happy part about March 2nd is that it is Molly's birthday. Molly is my godchild and the first grandchild to my Mom. She was born two months premature and was only 3lbs. She fit in my hand. She has had a few challenges growing up but she always seems to have a big bright smile on her face. I love her and that is what makes me happy today.
Happy Birthday Molly and Until we meet again Dad.....
The happy part about March 2nd is that it is Molly's birthday. Molly is my godchild and the first grandchild to my Mom. She was born two months premature and was only 3lbs. She fit in my hand. She has had a few challenges growing up but she always seems to have a big bright smile on her face. I love her and that is what makes me happy today.
Happy Birthday Molly and Until we meet again Dad.....
Friday, February 25, 2011
Demons and Angels
Do I believe in them? YES I do. I have had personal experiences myself to know that I would not have made it through had it not been for my guardian angel protecting me. I strongly believe that there are "spirits" both bad and good that are watching us.
My friend Pam said today that she got a call at 3am..."Mom?...I'm alright (sirens in background) I feel asleep at the wheel and flipped my car 5x. I am okay just a few scratches on my face." Her son is studying to be a preacher and we all know that God has bigger things planned for him. I wasn't there, but I can just imagine his guardian angel or Jesus took the wheel and led this boy to safety.
My other friend was asking me if I believed in demons. I said yes. She told me about how she thought she was sleeping but it felt too real to be a dream. She woke up out of breathe because she felt a hand over her mouth. She wasn't quite sure if was real or not and when she was awake...her breathing was still labored. She just moved to a new apartment building. I told her that she needs to cleanse or bless the apartment. In catholic faith we also use holy water to go from room to room and say a prayer to Michael, the archangel. She might have a lingering spirit.
I know some people are skeptics and that is fine. But I am a huge "Ghost Hunters" fan and know that there are just too many coincidences for spirits to not exist. I also watched my mother who was in a drug induced state (between earth and another realm) call out in her hospital room, "Come on Baby" as her first great-grandbaby was being born in the maternity floor of that hospital. It was like she was there with my niece, even though she never moved out of her bed.
I know I have angels watching over me. I know their names too!
My friend Pam said today that she got a call at 3am..."Mom?...I'm alright (sirens in background) I feel asleep at the wheel and flipped my car 5x. I am okay just a few scratches on my face." Her son is studying to be a preacher and we all know that God has bigger things planned for him. I wasn't there, but I can just imagine his guardian angel or Jesus took the wheel and led this boy to safety.
My other friend was asking me if I believed in demons. I said yes. She told me about how she thought she was sleeping but it felt too real to be a dream. She woke up out of breathe because she felt a hand over her mouth. She wasn't quite sure if was real or not and when she was awake...her breathing was still labored. She just moved to a new apartment building. I told her that she needs to cleanse or bless the apartment. In catholic faith we also use holy water to go from room to room and say a prayer to Michael, the archangel. She might have a lingering spirit.
I know some people are skeptics and that is fine. But I am a huge "Ghost Hunters" fan and know that there are just too many coincidences for spirits to not exist. I also watched my mother who was in a drug induced state (between earth and another realm) call out in her hospital room, "Come on Baby" as her first great-grandbaby was being born in the maternity floor of that hospital. It was like she was there with my niece, even though she never moved out of her bed.
I know I have angels watching over me. I know their names too!
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
No Hallmark card :(
I gave Rick his valentines card on Saturday. Most of you all know that I am a mushy lovey dovey person. I cried at CVS reading the card. He opened it on Saturday, along with his bag of fudge filled hearts. I cried again as he read it. If I was ever an actress, tears would come easy to me. No onions would be needed to make me cry...just Hallmark cards.
A few ladies at work received flowers, balloons, chocolates from their valentines. I told someone that Rick and I don't do flowers because...THEY DIE! But I did explain that he usually gets me a very mushy card that makes me cry. Last night when he got home he apologized and said he was tired and didn't stop to get me a card. He knew that it was expected, so by not having it, I was a little disappointed. Then I had to just stop myself from mentally complaining because he gives me more than a card every other day of the year so I don't really need a bleeping card for him to tell me how much he loves me. This is the man that two weeks ago made me a delicious pre-Valentines meal of shrimp, littlenecks and crab. How could I be upset? He still is the best thing that ever happened in my life and I love him more and more each day.
A few ladies at work received flowers, balloons, chocolates from their valentines. I told someone that Rick and I don't do flowers because...THEY DIE! But I did explain that he usually gets me a very mushy card that makes me cry. Last night when he got home he apologized and said he was tired and didn't stop to get me a card. He knew that it was expected, so by not having it, I was a little disappointed. Then I had to just stop myself from mentally complaining because he gives me more than a card every other day of the year so I don't really need a bleeping card for him to tell me how much he loves me. This is the man that two weeks ago made me a delicious pre-Valentines meal of shrimp, littlenecks and crab. How could I be upset? He still is the best thing that ever happened in my life and I love him more and more each day.
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Blue Cheese
I love Blue Cheese. I especially love it when there is a twang of sourness but then a lingering buttery flavor. It is called "stinky" cheese in my house. My dog Brier, loves to eat any kind of cheese but loves "stinky" cheese more. He nose goes up when he smells it.
We went to CostCo last Saturday and because we bought chicken wings for SuperBowl, Rick also thought about making homemade blue cheese dressing. We found a delicous brand that leaves a salty, sour, buttery flavor in your mouth. I am eating it now on chicken wings bought from cafeteria. The wings are actually the condiment in this case!
We use to buy "Great Hill Blue Cheese" http://www.greathillblue.com/ which is made three towns away from New Bedford in Marion, MA. We had tasted it first at a food show in Boston and got hooked. I can't remember if Sid Wainer sells it?
We went to CostCo last Saturday and because we bought chicken wings for SuperBowl, Rick also thought about making homemade blue cheese dressing. We found a delicous brand that leaves a salty, sour, buttery flavor in your mouth. I am eating it now on chicken wings bought from cafeteria. The wings are actually the condiment in this case!
We use to buy "Great Hill Blue Cheese" http://www.greathillblue.com/ which is made three towns away from New Bedford in Marion, MA. We had tasted it first at a food show in Boston and got hooked. I can't remember if Sid Wainer sells it?
Sunday, February 6, 2011
"Scallopers are Fearless"
My brother is the captain of fishing vessel (F/V) FEARLESS out of New Bedford, MA. He is a scalloper and goes out to sea for about 14 days at a time dragging for scallops and schucking them. He is responsible for all the guys on the boat. Side note: females are bad luck on a boat. He has one of the toughest most dangerous jobs. That is why the tv show "Deadliest Catch" is called that. Although working in Bering Sea is alot more dangerous than Atlantic fishing off George's Bank.
MPOM got me this sweatshirt a few years ago that has a left shoulder picture of the boat and the name below it. This is picture of the back. Pretty cool especially since it says "New Bedford, MA". I wore this one day this week to work. The VP of customer service dept is from Maine. He saw my sweatshirt and said that is nice..."Fearless". I told him that is the name of the boat my brother is Captain of. The VP is also on bowling league which was the next night. When I was up to bowl, he shouted out, "Go FEARLESS!" Loved it!
Yesterday I wore the sweatshirt to Costco in Spartanburg. The sweatshirt is warm and it wasn't too dirty so yes, I re-wore it. I was also wanting people to read it and see where I am from. Little did I know that Costco is having Seafood week and there was a kiosk with fresh seafood. The scallops were fresh and looked like they were right off the F/V Fearless. Rick bought some crab legs, tiger shrimp from Thailand and fresh littlenecks from Cedar Key Aquaculture Farms, INC. They were all delicous but I especially love littlenecks. I try to tell folks in South Carolina about them but they just don't know what littlenecks. I have to say our lot was harvested on 2/1 at 7:00am and they were fresh and delicous. I love a little cocktail sauce and lemon on them but the best way is to just slurp them down. I have fond memories of littlenecks and thank heavens I grew up in seafood city. I love all kinds of "fresh" fish. I still don't like frozen but I guess living now in Spartanburg, I have to get use to it.
I do miss home and the smell and sound of the ocean. I know Myrtle Beach is four hours away but it is not the same.
Yesterday I wore the sweatshirt to Costco in Spartanburg. The sweatshirt is warm and it wasn't too dirty so yes, I re-wore it. I was also wanting people to read it and see where I am from. Little did I know that Costco is having Seafood week and there was a kiosk with fresh seafood. The scallops were fresh and looked like they were right off the F/V Fearless. Rick bought some crab legs, tiger shrimp from Thailand and fresh littlenecks from Cedar Key Aquaculture Farms, INC. They were all delicous but I especially love littlenecks. I try to tell folks in South Carolina about them but they just don't know what littlenecks. I have to say our lot was harvested on 2/1 at 7:00am and they were fresh and delicous. I love a little cocktail sauce and lemon on them but the best way is to just slurp them down. I have fond memories of littlenecks and thank heavens I grew up in seafood city. I love all kinds of "fresh" fish. I still don't like frozen but I guess living now in Spartanburg, I have to get use to it.
I do miss home and the smell and sound of the ocean. I know Myrtle Beach is four hours away but it is not the same.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Compliments are wonderful
I dressed up to work today with full make-up, hair, nice outfit and even matching jewelry. I was teased last Friday because the girls knew I was going to my first Bonfire party at a friends house on Saturday. I told them that I might go to Kohl's and finally use my birthday gift card my Mom got me last year. Claudia asked if the reason I didn't use it was because it was from my Mom. I said, "No it's because I HATE shopping". They encouraged me to go buy something pretty and then I could say that my Mom bought it for me.
I haven't been shopping for myself in a real store (versus online) in quite some time. I wish Maureen or Janet was here to bring with me for their fashion sense. You would think after all those years of sitting on my bed in the morning watching how they put their outfits together, that I would have learned a few things. No sense of style....
I did know it was 60degrees out and that the temperature would drop but I would only need a light layer so thought of an oversize shirt. I walked to the fat ladies section and starting looking first for big shirts. I found a few and even had a leopard print one in my hand (not Jerseylicous) but I found this beautiful deep purple corduroy shirt that I love. Then I was thinking of another layer underneath and found this pretty top with blue in it, since I was going to wear jeans. I walked by the jewelry section and thank God they had the whole set on one of those rotating displays. I grabbed earrings, bracelet and necklace that matched. I think I spent about 30 minutes actually shopping. I don't try anything on in the store since I am wicked self-conscious of looking at my body in a full length mirror.
The outfit came together nice. I even stopped at Family Dollar for a bonniebrooks unitard that held all my fluff in tight yet let some cleavage show. While there I grabbed a little cheap thing of shades of purple eye shadow for a buck. I am attaching a picture of what I look like for those of you who see me schlep all the time.
Everyone at work was asking, "What did Rick say?" I told them that the day he mentions how pretty I look or something about my outfit etc... is the day I know he is cheating on me. The guy could care less what I look like. He loves me for me...not for the clothes, hair, make-up I wear.
I haven't been shopping for myself in a real store (versus online) in quite some time. I wish Maureen or Janet was here to bring with me for their fashion sense. You would think after all those years of sitting on my bed in the morning watching how they put their outfits together, that I would have learned a few things. No sense of style....
I did know it was 60degrees out and that the temperature would drop but I would only need a light layer so thought of an oversize shirt. I walked to the fat ladies section and starting looking first for big shirts. I found a few and even had a leopard print one in my hand (not Jerseylicous) but I found this beautiful deep purple corduroy shirt that I love. Then I was thinking of another layer underneath and found this pretty top with blue in it, since I was going to wear jeans. I walked by the jewelry section and thank God they had the whole set on one of those rotating displays. I grabbed earrings, bracelet and necklace that matched. I think I spent about 30 minutes actually shopping. I don't try anything on in the store since I am wicked self-conscious of looking at my body in a full length mirror.
The outfit came together nice. I even stopped at Family Dollar for a bonniebrooks unitard that held all my fluff in tight yet let some cleavage show. While there I grabbed a little cheap thing of shades of purple eye shadow for a buck. I am attaching a picture of what I look like for those of you who see me schlep all the time.
Everyone at work was asking, "What did Rick say?" I told them that the day he mentions how pretty I look or something about my outfit etc... is the day I know he is cheating on me. The guy could care less what I look like. He loves me for me...not for the clothes, hair, make-up I wear.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Illuminati
I feel sometimes that I am psychic. Today I was in a certain order working on it when an Outlook emailed popped up from logistics person asking about same exact order/Po that I was working on. I had mentally said to myself that I would have to contact logistics to find out more about this order but he emailed me instead. How ironic or did he pick up my mental note? (which by the way he is 900 miles away so it wasn't like we were in the same building)
I often wonder if the significance of my Mom being born in 1933 (double digits) and me being born in 1966 (again double digits) has any numerology significance. I know that if I had been born four days earlier my birthday would be 6-6-66. And Mom did tell me that I was late coming out of the womb -I had some funky white patina over me. I know this year being a double digit year is suppose to mean something. I imagine if Rick was born one day earlier he would have been 11-11. Weird random thoughts
I often wonder if the significance of my Mom being born in 1933 (double digits) and me being born in 1966 (again double digits) has any numerology significance. I know that if I had been born four days earlier my birthday would be 6-6-66. And Mom did tell me that I was late coming out of the womb -I had some funky white patina over me. I know this year being a double digit year is suppose to mean something. I imagine if Rick was born one day earlier he would have been 11-11. Weird random thoughts
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Songs that make me think of certain people
I had put on FB that I was listening to 80's music this past weekend and it is funny how certain songs make me think of certain people. First came Madonna and "Lucky Star". I mentally can see Judy on the NBHS 1984 pep squad do her routine and I know the opening cue music to shake my imaginary pom poms to.
Then Van Halen "Jump" came on. I had this pseudo crush on kid that lived next door to my sister. It was more because he was a boy and I was a girl and that he actually spoke to me than a true crush. I remember him playing Van Halen and thinking he was so cool.
Then there is "I would walk five hundred miles and I would walk five hundred more just to be the man to walk a thousand miles and see you at your door...dar-dar-da" along with "Come on Eileen" are songs that once you hear them....you can't get them out of your head. I picture Mike Ventura singing "Fish Heads Fish Heads rolly polly Fish Heads". I also remember kid who danced so good in high school do a Michael Jackson dance to "Beat It" at our Jr. Prom.
I wonder what song people hear and think of me? "When Irish Eyes are Smiling"? Probably but that is okay with me.
Then Van Halen "Jump" came on. I had this pseudo crush on kid that lived next door to my sister. It was more because he was a boy and I was a girl and that he actually spoke to me than a true crush. I remember him playing Van Halen and thinking he was so cool.
Then there is "I would walk five hundred miles and I would walk five hundred more just to be the man to walk a thousand miles and see you at your door...dar-dar-da" along with "Come on Eileen" are songs that once you hear them....you can't get them out of your head. I picture Mike Ventura singing "Fish Heads Fish Heads rolly polly Fish Heads". I also remember kid who danced so good in high school do a Michael Jackson dance to "Beat It" at our Jr. Prom.
I wonder what song people hear and think of me? "When Irish Eyes are Smiling"? Probably but that is okay with me.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Procrastination....not this year
My first sign that I am doing "okay" on my New Year's resolution is that I sent my sister her birthday card early. Not just a day early, but a year early. I thought it was her 50th birthday so I went to Hallmark.com and sent her an e-card. Then I saw how you could attach a gift card and got my birthday shopping done too. This was all completed within ten minutes a day earlier than her birthday.
Now I am renewed to think that Hallmark.com will be my best friend this year for birthday cards. I just have to remember whose, when and how old they are.
Now I am renewed to think that Hallmark.com will be my best friend this year for birthday cards. I just have to remember whose, when and how old they are.
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Resolution to blog more -Hahahahahahahaha
I have a few faults. Yes only a few. One of the biggest faults, other than my hefty size, it my procrastination. It leads to a few things falling by the wayside that I should of completed at the moment I thought of it. I also could write it down so that I won't forget to accomplish the task. I did give myself a big slap on the back for getting the family Christmas presents out before Christmas. Of course, it came at a price. I had to stand in line for 45 minutes on "THE BUSIEST DAY" at the post office, December 20th. I did get the packages out and that was my fault (procrastination) for waiting that long. I did order a few gifts online and did not have to pay any "overnight" fees for getting the gifts there quicker.
So my New Year's resolution is to be quicker with my Hallmark birthday cards, get gifts in the mail before nieces and nephew birthday and to try to make sure all my bills get paid before their due dates.
So my New Year's resolution is to be quicker with my Hallmark birthday cards, get gifts in the mail before nieces and nephew birthday and to try to make sure all my bills get paid before their due dates.
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